Crazy Stuff Narcissists Say – direct words from survivors.
Can’t you take a joke?
Your so ungrateful.
Of course I did, but maybe I can make you forget…?
I never said.
You must have understood me.
Yes, I know I just made you feel two inches tall, but why would you think you can call me out on that?
I was just trying to help.
Can’t we just move past that?
There you go, blaming me again.
I was manipulating you, but that’s not the point.
She is helping you see the truth about me, better remove her from your life.
Why don’t you take a look at yourself.
What are you even talking about?
You always take things so personally
I NEVER SAID THAT. WOW, the things you all accuse me of! It’s evil. I can’t believe this is happening to me.
You always twist my words around
I want your therapist’s number; I know you’re going just to talk bad about me and I want her to have MY perspective.
Are you crazy? I never said/did that.
You don’t have the RIGHT to be upset,
You think your depressed? You aren’t! I’m the one who should be depressed! I’ve had it worse than you!
I don’t remember doing that.
If you’re successful in life the credit is mine. If you’re a failure, you did that shit on your own
God how can you make this all about you?
I never said that. YOU said that/do this all the time.
Other people have it worse. All families are messed up in their own way.
You need a therapist. And I’m gonna make sure it’s not one of those who have any ‘confidentiality’. He better tell me what you’re saying.
Then the therapist told me that I was the one with the problem! Can you imagine?
Don’t you dare talk about me in therapy!! You don’t talk about me to ANYONE!
Shut the f*ck up! It’s only a broken leg. You really need to get your attitude under control. Everything doesn’t revolve around you!
You don’t have a right to privacy, I’m your mother/spouse/partner.
Child abuse?! What about mommy abuse?!! I should’ve had the police take you away years ago!
I’m sorry that you’re upset with me.
It was just a joke.
Go apologize to your mum because hitting you made her sad.
I hope you get a kid just like you so you know how this feels!
Just don’t let that therapist turn you against me!
When I WANT your opinion, I’ll GIVE it to you!
Don’t even think about cheating on me with your therapist.
I went through your phone messages and desktop messenger chat history because YOU WON’T TELL ME ANYTHING!
I’ll give you a reason to cry.
You can’t take criticism. You’re too sensitive.
Nobody ever bothers to visit me after they die.